Where does sex fall on your priority list? Over half of millennial parents say it's at the bottom on busy days (and seriously, what days aren't?)
For me, I give of myself all day, so when Joe makes a move, it can feel like someone else wanting something from my already depleted stores.
My favorite relationship expert, Esther Perel suggests re-framing: Your partner isn't taking but giving -- offering you a chance to stay connected to a major part of who you are that you are currently neglecting.
Joe's giving me a chance to de-stress, deeply connect and just be me again. Damn, when you put it like that, why was it on the bottom? Get it on.